CASE SCENARIO
The following stories, although fictional, could be true scenarios on reasons why respite could be necessary.
- Susie, a 25 year old single mom is up to her ears in stress. She has recently lost her job and received final notices on her bills. In addition she has her rambunctious 4 and 6 year old sons to tend to. Susie has been toying with the idea of relapse and needs some help. A weekend of respite was just what the doctor ordered. Susie called PPMH and requested services and supports. After opening a file with them she got just what she asked for. Her two children were placed in a safe and secure foster/respite licensed home for three days. During this time, Susie was able to get the house in order and through community resources applied for a few jobs she qualified for. In the end, Susie was employed and due to the fresh breath of air by the little break, she was able to do the most important job given - to be a mother to her children. Since this time, Susie has utilized respite about every 6 weeks to get her affairs in order. The children are happier and Susie wakes up ready to face another day.
- Mary, a 57 year old grandmother was given custody of her 11 year old grand-son Mark. After a well check, Mary was informed she need to follow through with a surgery she had been putting off for too long. It was scheduled for the following week, with only one problem, she had no one to look after Mark. Mark, being a fantastic student with little behavior concerns wasn't a problem for anyone, but Mary was new to the neighborhood and had few people she could count on. Mary, through private pay, received respite for a week while she tended to her medical needs. She was able to recover quickly due to the lessened stress of knowing her grandson was being well taken care of. Mary and Mark now frequent the respite provider families home, and Mary has a person she can now count on if ever needed. Mark has also benefited in that he now has an additional 'family' to visit and enjoy!
